Do you fight for your friendships?

Do you fight for your friendships?

 

Do you know that feeling when you are really changing as a human, and as a spirit?  I have been changing for years now. It feels like I am expanding all the time.
I am in constant evolution. I am still the same in my core, my spirit. Even though I am changing, I still have the same core values. They are very important to stay true to. This is who you are deep inside your soul and spirit.

I have friends where I see their potential and cores when they don’t. I love helping people to see their core, the love and potential they have inside. It is close to magic. During my life, I have had people I was close to and have had to let go. They changed in another direction and I could not follow. I could not walk the same path and they could not come along mine. It has been some of the hardest things in my life. To let go of people that I really cared for. Some have just faded away, and slowly just lost touch. Others have gone with a huge commotion. It has been hard times, but mostly it has been hard putting myself first.
Some friends have not had any understanding for my path and others have been along for the ride. I have loved seeing some of the paths my friends have taken, and others not so much.
I have asked myself, “when you should you leave other people, and when to fight for a friendship? “.

It is one of the hardest lessons I have had to learn.
The answer I have found to work for me, is listen to your intuition. Really listen, and ask yourself if the energy you use on the friendship is more negative than positive. Do you go to bed feeling angry or sad more often than not, then is it time to let go?
One of the things I have used is a simple but great thing. I flip a coin, and that sounds absurd, but it is not the outcome. It is because in that very moment it falls, you know what is right, what you hope for and what you have to do.
It is truly irrelevant what the outcome of the coinflip is. It is what is in your heart that is important.

Chose yourself – every day!

Dear friend listen to me

Dear friend listen to me

I have this great friend. I have more than one, but this one is special.
Like so many others she is in a relationship that are not good. She is trying to make it work, and she keep on telling herself that it must be her. She must be the one who are in the wrong. She must have misunderstood, or be confused, her word echoes in my soul.
From the outside I can see it all and I want to shout out very loud that he has to go, and that it has to be fast. I see him not listening. I see him in a pattern he cannot change, and he sees himself as a victim.
I see him suffocate her independence slowly but surely. When I talk to her she is different because he might listen in, or read her texts.
Her soul is slowly being put away for her to serve him. As a psychic I am told when things are not good for people, and how they can move in the right direction. She is not moving in the right direction.
The only thing I can do is to say what I already are saying, and be there for her. I cannot tell her that the whole universe is screaming for her to be herself, and feel her soul dance again. I cannot tell her that he is just bad news for her, and he must go. Only she can make that decision.
Last time I wrote her, an older man was standing behind me. He told me to tell her to be careful. That there are not far from victim to crazy, for some people. Being unable to handle emotions are strong in both.
I often say to people if it feels wrong it is wrong. This is wrong.
My dear friend listen to me, and make a hard decision.

“How do you spell ‘love’?” – Piglet
“You don’t spell it…you feel it.” – Pooh”