5 things I learned in December

5 things I learned in December

#1 – I learned that if I don’t take of myself, spirit will make sure I will. I learned it the hard way. I had a hard time remembering myself, but spirit always has my back. Read about it here: https://soulguide.com/clairvoyance/listen-spirit-language/

#2 – I learned that my business coach, Andi, in every way makes me act and work. She is absolutely fantastic, and an extraordinaire soul. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/workingwithwickman/

#3 – I learned that my Danish members club is fantastic, and slowly and surely moving forward. It is a great place of development, caring, and spirituality. It is a place where members can evolve.

#4 – I learned that the healing I see in regressions is amazing. It gives a very raw healing that goes so deep into every cell and fiber.  The healing from past lives gives access to so much more happiness.

#5 – I learned that not everyone understands what thoughtfulness and caring is. You have to start with yourself and through action, show others what it is to care. Everything starts with yourself.

What kind of conversation do you choose?

What kind of conversation do you choose?

I went to a Christmas market a few weeks ago. I had a place there, where I had put my posters and postcards on display. On top I had a deck of angel cards so visitors could draw one and we could talk about it. I love talking to people, they always have so many lovely stories to tell.

One of the things I see a lot of the time, is that men tend to say “I don’t believe in that stuff” and more often than not, they refuse to participate. A few even said “that is my wife’s craziness.”

I often let go and say nothing when men have negative comments like that. They are going to talk to me when they are ready, and a lot of men are never ready.

One man did talk to me, and when I told him what I was getting, he looked at me in a way that only someone who understood could. I loved that he listened.

One man was so much fun to talk to because he was spending a lot of time trying to tell me how my line of work really is, and how none of the things I said was true. I find those people almost hilarious because they do not listen to what I say but try to come up with all kinds of “evidence” why what I say is wrong. He came up with one reason after another, and even called me a fraud.

On the other hand, he kept on saying that he believed there is more to life than what we see.

I am firm believer in the fact that I am not the one to convince people. I don’t need people to believe me. What I do need is for people to respect me, and listen to me. I am not asking for anyone to be converted, but to show basic respect the same way they want me to believe them.

Do you remember the last time someone did not respect you in a conversation? What did you do?

Raise you human game

Raise you human game

 

Has anyone ever told you that you were not good enough? Have you ever told anyone they were not good enough?

I try so hard not to focus on what people are not able to do, but raise my thoughts and see what people are capable of. I want to lift people and I want everyone to know that they have great value to the universe. No one is here by accident.

If someone tells you that you are not good enough, that you are no use, or anything like that, raise your game. Don’t give back the same way. Be the opposite, tell them how they are great, how it is so great for them to give you great critique, just let them know that you are not like them.

“if they go low, you go high”

Michelle Obama said it not too long ago “if they go low, you go high”. It is such brilliant words. The world has so many people going low, and talking in horrid ways. Even being very rude to other people. If no one stops it and say I am not like them, it is just going to go on.

Growing up I was always told to ignore and turn the other cheek. While I was told to do that, it seemed like a hopeless road with the horrid bullying coming my way. I don’t think it is the solution. You need to act, otherwise you will feel helpless. That does not mean being like them.

Your ego want to fight back, and wants you to defend yourself. Defense is more than “giving back”. If you are kind, loving and come with words from a place of love, you will be successful.

Of course, there some people who are not responding well to that ether, and that is when you need to make your stand VERY clear. Remove yourself after making it clear that it is not acceptable. Protecting yourself, does not mean fighting, it can also just mean to be kind and removing yourself.

I hope that you will live from your heart and in love, not in your ego, and fighting.

 

How to cure certain headaches

How to cure certain headaches

 

Often when out with friends, I end up channeling what I get from the other world. Some of the issues I am asked a lot about are headaches and migraines.

A lot of people, too many people, have headaches and in some cases, very severe headaches. They  can be sick for several days during a month, often with migraines, and in some cases are even not able to work.

One time I was talking to some friends, one of whom told me she was very sick with migraines and had as much as four to five days a month where she was unable to get out of bed. I told her that I didn’t actually think she was sick.
I know she thought I must be crazy, but I asked her to bear with me.

Sometimes headaches are a visit, from the other world which has come to close to your private sphere. Everyone has one, and if a person is too close you either increase the distance, or you accept they are within your sphere.
But what do you do if it’s a visit, and you don’t know how handle them getting too close, because you can’t see them?

The difference

I told her that she had to try to communicate when she felt a headache or migraine build up. Ask it to move away from her. Even just 3 steps, or enough for her to get back her own space, her private sphere. If a physical being gets too close, you would also feel uncomfortable and probably ask them to move. Here it is exactly same. No doubt, she thought I was crazy but since nothing else had worked she was willing to give it a try.

The next time I saw her she was a changed woman; She had done what I suggested to her, and she hadn’t had a headache in two months. She was so happy, but also a bit scared because she didn’t understand what had made her headaches go away.
She wanted to know what spirits were there and why they wanted to hurt her. I told her they did not want to hurt her but when she had headaches she was asking the universe for help and that made it worse. They are trying to help, to heal, and that’s why they get in close, and the it amplifies everything.

How to: 
If you have headaches try to:

Breathe and say, either inside your head or out loud, “please take 3 steps back because I get uncomfortable when you are this close”.
It usually works the first time, but try it and let me know what you think.

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My soul is bleeding

My soul is bleeding

I love my friends, and I am very close to some of them. I feel them. When I thought about a friend today, this is what came to me. I absolutely love my friend, and would love to save her from her tears, but I can’t.

There are these days where my soul is bleeding. It is telling me that life is just the hardest because I must learn and grow. Somehow I did not know how bad my soul was bleeding until a friend told me. The moment she said the word the tears came running. They will not stop, but they are the voice of my soul.

My soul is speaking and I need to listen. It is telling me I am on the right path, and not far from my dream, but somehow it seems like I cannot reach it without my soul bleeding. I need to learn, to stop and be grateful. Why is gratefulness so hard and why can’t I just be satisfied and happy.

It seems like learning comes with tears. Every tear is a sentence from my soul, telling me to remember myself and be brave. Somehow I am brave and encouraging to? everyone but me. I know my work is about others but I seem to be lost in the process. Am I just put on earth to serve and not to be alive and happy? How can I be me and not die a little every day?

Tomorrow will be better; we promise, they keep telling me. And still my soul is bleeding. Where is the light and how can I get into it?
My fight is personal, where no one can come along, and nobody wants to.

This is words with power and I know she is better now.

My soul is bleeding

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Words from Spirit

Words from Spirit

If you focus on what you don’t know, you will end up sad and miserable. We want you to put all your energy into positive things. We want you to ask yourself what and how you can move on and learn more, to know more.

How can you learn from this experience and how can it help you grow?

If you focus on what is hard, sad and personal it will have control over you. That doesn’t mean that you should ignore all hardship in your life, but rather that you shouldn’t dwell on it. You should look at it as something you can learn from and grow stronger from.

We know sometimes you need help to move on but then you should seek the help, and learn how this can make you grow.

We come to you with love and understanding. We will not leave you, but stay at your side through great times and other times.

Words from spirit

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How do you listen?

How do you listen?

So many people are alone with their feelings, and many choose not to share them because they have previously been burned by others.

Not long ago, I was talking to a woman who keeps her feelings to herself. She was explaining how, one day, one of her friends had pushed her to tell how she felt. Her friend had said that “sharing is good” and so she ended up telling her how she was. But this friend never replied to what she told her, just something irrelevant about kids.
Obviously, she was hurt by her friend’s behavior. She had told this friend about her feelings, which was extraordinary. And all she got out of it was, that maybe keeping her feelings to herself was the right thing to do.

We talked about how sharing with others can be difficult, because our expectations of others are so different. They might not be in the same place as you, so you cannot expect them to act as you do.

I don’t think that this friend should have pushed her so hard if she anyway didn’t have time to listen to her, that just makes the effort seem pointless. If you want others to feel important, like they matter, you must listen to them. Who knows, they might even say something interesting.

Have you thought about how you listen, and what you expect from other people when you share your thoughts and feelings?

I often say that we should listen to the older generation of our society, mostly because they have seen things we wouldn’t even dream of. I have spent a lot of time listening to my grandparents and their friends, asking about the “old times” and that has taught me so much about where the world comes from, and where it is going.

Sometimes, all you need is to breathe and listen.

How do you listen?

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I got lost – but now I am back

I got lost - but now I am back

I got lost – but now I am back

I have been away for some time now, and I know that I’m usually a lot more reliable when it comes to my blog and writing posts. The reason for me “taking some time of” is, that I have been moving to a new apartment with my family, which took a lot more energy than I had expected.

Also, it has been a crazy month with so many new inputs and emotions coming my way that I was hardly able to keep track of any of them. I had days where I was crying for hours and I had no idea why.

I guess that the sum of the move being so hard and everything else on top, my mind and body just stopped working properly, in an attempt to say “enough is enough.” I was crying over TV shows, over my family, over work and basically over everything.

I am blessed with the greatest friends and husband. They have really been there for me. They have all given me words of comfort and healing.

Just two days ago I realized what it is the universe wants me to know, and teach me; I should be me, and try to be something else.

In my business and in my work, I have tried so hard to listen to what others told me was “the right thing,” but I realized, perhaps a little late, that I have to be me and do things my way.  Authenticity above anything else.

So now new things are going to happen both with me as a soul having a human experience and with Soulguide. I have made so many new decisions and I am so glad that I did.

Soon I will be able to tell you more about it, and more will build on as time passes. I hope you will go with me on this magical ride. It is going to be great!

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I can find most things

I can find most things

 

In my Danish blog I write about my world and one of the things that is taking a lot of my time is finding things, and in fact one of the posts that has gotten the most attention in my Danish blog is one about this.
I have found anything from mobile phones to horses.

I sometimes hear people say that it’s impossible to measure what I do, but it is more convincing when I find things for them. From time to time there are things I cannot find or circumstances that make it very difficult, but every time it is down to me not “seeing” the pictures I get clearly enough, so I’m still practicing.

Usually it starts by me being tagged in Facebook groups when people cannot find their things, and the last time it was a woman who had lost her keys which I found for her.

I also get phone calls from people who have lost jewelry like necklaces or rings. An older woman once called me and said she lost a necklace that her daughter had given to her.
I told her that what I was shown was a leg from a bed, a brown one and a carpet and I was puzzled when she told me that it didn’t sound like anything inside her house. But I was very sure and after some more talking back and forward I think she gave up. I chose to let it go even though I was very sure. I didn’t want to lose any sleep over it.
But then, two days later, she called me again and told me that the necklace had been found at her daughter’s house, right next to the leg of a bed on the carpet. She just had to tell me because she had been so certain that I was wrong but then it turned out that it was right on the money.

A mobile phone

Today I was at a social gathering at which a woman told me that her son had lost his mobile phone. It had been four weeks since they last had seen it. I instantly told her that it was in her kitchen. She was very sceptic, which obviously is absolutely fine, but I knew that I saw a fridge.
Later in the day I received a text message from her that they had found it behind their freezer not far from the fridge.

I love when I’m able to prove myself to sceptics, as they cannot say it must have been a lucky guess. If it was, let me tell you, I make amazingly many lucky guesses and should have won the lottery several times already. But I haven’t.

I know from the other post, that questions to find things come through the comments. I would love to answer all of them but I haven’t got the time to do as much free work as I would like to.

SoulChat

I will not be answering questions in this post.
That is why I have my SoulChat’s once a month where I will answer questions for free. You can see when the next SoulChat will be by looking in my event calendar HERE.

The next SoulChat is already on September 14th 2016 at 3 PM EST.

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Psychic or crazy?

Psychic or crazy?

 

I recently had a lecture during which I was asked about mental illness. I was asked by this sweet young woman who wanted to know where the line between being mentally ill and being psychic is. I loved that she asked that question.

The line between the two is paper-thin. In my life I have met so many people that have been told and diagnosed as mentally ill in varying degrees, and I have also been in bad places in my life. So this subject is close to my heart.

I often meet people that I think are not actually mentally ill, but they had no one to catch them when they went overboard as they had no guides on earth, which made them feel even worse. But I have also met people where I had no doubts that they were mentally ill, but they didn’t understand that they were.

Some of the greatest people I have met were artists such as writers, painters and generally creative people, have been diagnosed with different mental illnesses. But what they truly are, is lost souls. Not lost souls like in the movies, but souls that have not found their way on their own in this life.

To them the world is simply too much of everything, from noise to people. They have a strong connection to the other world, but cannot sort all of the information, and ultimately they will be overwhelmed.

One of these people was a great writer, who was a really famous one, and no doubt very psychic. But he was admitted to a mental institution every now and then because he had to “restart” his brain. He was not mentally ill as such, but he needed shielding from the world. He needed to disappear for a while in order for him to be able to breathe again and function properly.

A problem in today’s society is, that we perceive mental illness is seen as something dirty, something wrong and scary. And often it is only treated with medication. It cannot only be treated with medicine, because you have to get to the origin of the problems people have and not just treat symptoms. If left unsolved they will never get better or simply relapse after some time.

If you got sick every time you ate something specific you wouldn’t take pills for that, but rather make an effort to find out what caused it and stop eating that. Why should we then give pills to someone for depression (as an example) without talking about why the depression came around in the first place, and giving tools to deal with it?

I think that is just so sad. More needs to be done!

psychic or crazy?