5 things I learned in December

5 things I learned in December

#1 – I learned that if I don’t take of myself, spirit will make sure I will. I learned it the hard way. I had a hard time remembering myself, but spirit always has my back. Read about it here: https://soulguide.com/clairvoyance/listen-spirit-language/

#2 – I learned that my business coach, Andi, in every way makes me act and work. She is absolutely fantastic, and an extraordinaire soul. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/workingwithwickman/

#3 – I learned that my Danish members club is fantastic, and slowly and surely moving forward. It is a great place of development, caring, and spirituality. It is a place where members can evolve.

#4 – I learned that the healing I see in regressions is amazing. It gives a very raw healing that goes so deep into every cell and fiber.  The healing from past lives gives access to so much more happiness.

#5 – I learned that not everyone understands what thoughtfulness and caring is. You have to start with yourself and through action, show others what it is to care. Everything starts with yourself.

I had to listen – Spirit Language

I had to listen – Spirit Language


I must tell you about my last two weeks. The last month has been hard, and with a load of things to do. I have not had time to stop and think or feel. I have helped a lot of others but felt almost powerless when it came to relaxing.

So, my phone decided to lose power fast, and the screen cracked. This was last week. I had to call the insurance company to have it replaced.

One morning I woke up with a finger that hurt and was turning blue. I was surprised because I had done nothing to injure it. Turns out I had blown some blood vessels in my finger. It hurt like crazy and I had to go to the doctor’s to figure it out.

The very same day, my computer died. Not just died, but totally died. Nothing happened when I pushed the button. I had to call the service center to have it replaced.

Our clock on the wall stopped all of the sudden. Just stopped. It is almost brand new, but t just stopped.

My car got a new problem, and I needed to take it to the mechanic to be fixed.

So, within two day I was down one hand, one phone, one computer, one car, and a clock. I was beginning to see a pattern.

I had spoken to 3 different service centers, a doctor and a mechanic. I decided to ask a friend. She is very intuitive and great at tuning in to me.

She told me it was time to remember my healing, meditation and peace. It had to do with remembering myself.

I know she was right and I have taken time every day to be me, and not just helping others.

The lesson, not just for me, is to remember yourself every day, spend time on you, even if you can only get 10 minutes a day.



Raise you human game

Raise you human game


Has anyone ever told you that you were not good enough? Have you ever told anyone they were not good enough?

I try so hard not to focus on what people are not able to do, but raise my thoughts and see what people are capable of. I want to lift people and I want everyone to know that they have great value to the universe. No one is here by accident.

If someone tells you that you are not good enough, that you are no use, or anything like that, raise your game. Don’t give back the same way. Be the opposite, tell them how they are great, how it is so great for them to give you great critique, just let them know that you are not like them.

“if they go low, you go high”

Michelle Obama said it not too long ago “if they go low, you go high”. It is such brilliant words. The world has so many people going low, and talking in horrid ways. Even being very rude to other people. If no one stops it and say I am not like them, it is just going to go on.

Growing up I was always told to ignore and turn the other cheek. While I was told to do that, it seemed like a hopeless road with the horrid bullying coming my way. I don’t think it is the solution. You need to act, otherwise you will feel helpless. That does not mean being like them.

Your ego want to fight back, and wants you to defend yourself. Defense is more than “giving back”. If you are kind, loving and come with words from a place of love, you will be successful.

Of course, there some people who are not responding well to that ether, and that is when you need to make your stand VERY clear. Remove yourself after making it clear that it is not acceptable. Protecting yourself, does not mean fighting, it can also just mean to be kind and removing yourself.

I hope that you will live from your heart and in love, not in your ego, and fighting.


How to cure certain headaches

How to cure certain headaches


Often when out with friends, I end up channeling what I get from the other world. Some of the issues I am asked a lot about are headaches and migraines.

A lot of people, too many people, have headaches and in some cases, very severe headaches. They  can be sick for several days during a month, often with migraines, and in some cases are even not able to work.

One time I was talking to some friends, one of whom told me she was very sick with migraines and had as much as four to five days a month where she was unable to get out of bed. I told her that I didn’t actually think she was sick.
I know she thought I must be crazy, but I asked her to bear with me.

Sometimes headaches are a visit, from the other world which has come to close to your private sphere. Everyone has one, and if a person is too close you either increase the distance, or you accept they are within your sphere.
But what do you do if it’s a visit, and you don’t know how handle them getting too close, because you can’t see them?

The difference

I told her that she had to try to communicate when she felt a headache or migraine build up. Ask it to move away from her. Even just 3 steps, or enough for her to get back her own space, her private sphere. If a physical being gets too close, you would also feel uncomfortable and probably ask them to move. Here it is exactly same. No doubt, she thought I was crazy but since nothing else had worked she was willing to give it a try.

The next time I saw her she was a changed woman; She had done what I suggested to her, and she hadn’t had a headache in two months. She was so happy, but also a bit scared because she didn’t understand what had made her headaches go away.
She wanted to know what spirits were there and why they wanted to hurt her. I told her they did not want to hurt her but when she had headaches she was asking the universe for help and that made it worse. They are trying to help, to heal, and that’s why they get in close, and the it amplifies everything.

How to: 
If you have headaches try to:

Breathe and say, either inside your head or out loud, “please take 3 steps back because I get uncomfortable when you are this close”.
It usually works the first time, but try it and let me know what you think.

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My soul is bleeding

My soul is bleeding

I love my friends, and I am very close to some of them. I feel them. When I thought about a friend today, this is what came to me. I absolutely love my friend, and would love to save her from her tears, but I can’t.

There are these days where my soul is bleeding. It is telling me that life is just the hardest because I must learn and grow. Somehow I did not know how bad my soul was bleeding until a friend told me. The moment she said the word the tears came running. They will not stop, but they are the voice of my soul.

My soul is speaking and I need to listen. It is telling me I am on the right path, and not far from my dream, but somehow it seems like I cannot reach it without my soul bleeding. I need to learn, to stop and be grateful. Why is gratefulness so hard and why can’t I just be satisfied and happy.

It seems like learning comes with tears. Every tear is a sentence from my soul, telling me to remember myself and be brave. Somehow I am brave and encouraging to? everyone but me. I know my work is about others but I seem to be lost in the process. Am I just put on earth to serve and not to be alive and happy? How can I be me and not die a little every day?

Tomorrow will be better; we promise, they keep telling me. And still my soul is bleeding. Where is the light and how can I get into it?
My fight is personal, where no one can come along, and nobody wants to.

This is words with power and I know she is better now.

My soul is bleeding

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How do you listen?

How do you listen?

So many people are alone with their feelings, and many choose not to share them because they have previously been burned by others.

Not long ago, I was talking to a woman who keeps her feelings to herself. She was explaining how, one day, one of her friends had pushed her to tell how she felt. Her friend had said that “sharing is good” and so she ended up telling her how she was. But this friend never replied to what she told her, just something irrelevant about kids.
Obviously, she was hurt by her friend’s behavior. She had told this friend about her feelings, which was extraordinary. And all she got out of it was, that maybe keeping her feelings to herself was the right thing to do.

We talked about how sharing with others can be difficult, because our expectations of others are so different. They might not be in the same place as you, so you cannot expect them to act as you do.

I don’t think that this friend should have pushed her so hard if she anyway didn’t have time to listen to her, that just makes the effort seem pointless. If you want others to feel important, like they matter, you must listen to them. Who knows, they might even say something interesting.

Have you thought about how you listen, and what you expect from other people when you share your thoughts and feelings?

I often say that we should listen to the older generation of our society, mostly because they have seen things we wouldn’t even dream of. I have spent a lot of time listening to my grandparents and their friends, asking about the “old times” and that has taught me so much about where the world comes from, and where it is going.

Sometimes, all you need is to breathe and listen.

How do you listen?

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I got lost – but now I am back

I got lost - but now I am back

I got lost – but now I am back

I have been away for some time now, and I know that I’m usually a lot more reliable when it comes to my blog and writing posts. The reason for me “taking some time of” is, that I have been moving to a new apartment with my family, which took a lot more energy than I had expected.

Also, it has been a crazy month with so many new inputs and emotions coming my way that I was hardly able to keep track of any of them. I had days where I was crying for hours and I had no idea why.

I guess that the sum of the move being so hard and everything else on top, my mind and body just stopped working properly, in an attempt to say “enough is enough.” I was crying over TV shows, over my family, over work and basically over everything.

I am blessed with the greatest friends and husband. They have really been there for me. They have all given me words of comfort and healing.

Just two days ago I realized what it is the universe wants me to know, and teach me; I should be me, and try to be something else.

In my business and in my work, I have tried so hard to listen to what others told me was “the right thing,” but I realized, perhaps a little late, that I have to be me and do things my way.  Authenticity above anything else.

So now new things are going to happen both with me as a soul having a human experience and with Soulguide. I have made so many new decisions and I am so glad that I did.

Soon I will be able to tell you more about it, and more will build on as time passes. I hope you will go with me on this magical ride. It is going to be great!

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Psychic or crazy?

Psychic or crazy?


I recently had a lecture during which I was asked about mental illness. I was asked by this sweet young woman who wanted to know where the line between being mentally ill and being psychic is. I loved that she asked that question.

The line between the two is paper-thin. In my life I have met so many people that have been told and diagnosed as mentally ill in varying degrees, and I have also been in bad places in my life. So this subject is close to my heart.

I often meet people that I think are not actually mentally ill, but they had no one to catch them when they went overboard as they had no guides on earth, which made them feel even worse. But I have also met people where I had no doubts that they were mentally ill, but they didn’t understand that they were.

Some of the greatest people I have met were artists such as writers, painters and generally creative people, have been diagnosed with different mental illnesses. But what they truly are, is lost souls. Not lost souls like in the movies, but souls that have not found their way on their own in this life.

To them the world is simply too much of everything, from noise to people. They have a strong connection to the other world, but cannot sort all of the information, and ultimately they will be overwhelmed.

One of these people was a great writer, who was a really famous one, and no doubt very psychic. But he was admitted to a mental institution every now and then because he had to “restart” his brain. He was not mentally ill as such, but he needed shielding from the world. He needed to disappear for a while in order for him to be able to breathe again and function properly.

A problem in today’s society is, that we perceive mental illness is seen as something dirty, something wrong and scary. And often it is only treated with medication. It cannot only be treated with medicine, because you have to get to the origin of the problems people have and not just treat symptoms. If left unsolved they will never get better or simply relapse after some time.

If you got sick every time you ate something specific you wouldn’t take pills for that, but rather make an effort to find out what caused it and stop eating that. Why should we then give pills to someone for depression (as an example) without talking about why the depression came around in the first place, and giving tools to deal with it?

I think that is just so sad. More needs to be done!

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Do you need a vacation?

Do you need at vacation?


These days a lot of people in the northern hemisphere are going on vacation. This is the time where all the thought that goes in to planning and thinking about vacation are fulfilled. Some are going on their dream vacation, some on a great vacation and again some would rather have decided something else.

Some doesn’t have enough money to travel anywhere, like a friend of mine who was really sad that she couldn’t afford to take her kids on a vacation, and had to stay at home. It turns out they had a great time by just being together and do absolutely nothing. Not having to go anywhere was a blessing for them.

Sometimes the thing you think you want the most is not really the same thing you need. There are so many people who go on a vacations where they don’t relax but the opposite. At the same time, I know that some people relax when they go camping or hiking. Not everyone need to be passive on a beach doing nothing in order for them to relax.

One of the most loving things you can do is to breathe and feel what the best kind of vacation is best for you. Also you need to find the core of what energizes you and be sure that is what you are going to be doing on a vacation.

For years I have been working even when I was on vacation, so it has not really been vacation. I love my work and vacation means working less. But this year I have decided to turn on the vacation sign on the blog and not post anything for two weeks.

I have always had a really hard time relaxing and still have a hard time doing nothing. This year I have decided that I need “me-time” during the short summer Denmark has to offer.

I will be back stronger and revitalized. I am not going anywhere, like traveling, just enjoying time with my family. I hope that you will be back with me after the two weeks.

What are you doing this summer, and what does relaxation mean to you?


Did you say no for two weeks?

Did you say no for two weeks?


A few weeks ago I posted Could you say no for two weeks straight?

It was inspired by this beautiful woman who was in a bad place in her life, didn’t feel like she had control in her life, was worn out and needed to be able to steer her life herself. She had lost her direction and her soul had almost shut down entirely. She was in tears when I told her she had to say no. Today I caught up with her and she told me how she was doing.

One thing she emphasized was, that she felt much better and much more in control of her life. She told me that for the first time in years she feels like herself. I absolutely loved hearing her say that this simply exercise had helped her. The energy in her words was very different from the broken woman I saw just a few weeks ago.

She told me her husband did not agree with her no´s but she did not expect him to. After all, she hadn’t said no for years, so they are in a hard process and she is fighting to communicate with him. They have kids and that makes it even more important to communicate and work together.

She was much happier and alive in her soul. She knew she was heading for something very different in her life, but was sure that it would be something better. She even said that now she said no just because she could, since now she was able to. I know that sounds stupid to some people but to her it was a true revolution.

One of the things the other world wants her to know is that she will be okay. They want her to know that her path is right in front of her and that she is going to change the world for people. She is on the right path now, as she is listening to her soul.


Did you try two weeks with NO? How did it go?

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