A dead Samaritan is no Samaritan.

A dead Samaritan is no Samaritan.


I love this expression because it sums up everything. After talking to a lot of people, both as a spiritual guide but and as a human, I found that people have a hard time taking care of themselves.
It is just the same on a flight. The safety instructions always tell you to put on your own oxygen mask first before helping others with theirs. Some find it almost stupid that they should save themselves before others, when in fact it is the smartest.

How are you going to help others if you have died from lack of oxygen?

Just like in every other aspect of your life, you need to help and take care of yourself before you can help others. If you do not spend time on feeling better, relaxing and being compassionate towards yourself, how are you going to help others?

How will you help others if you are sick from stress, exhaustion or even dead from not taking care of yourself? We can all neglect ourselves for a short time, but not in the long run at all.

I often say that a dead Samaritan is no Samaritan because it is true. Too many have great excuses as to why they don’t need to take care of themselves and how it just cannot be done. I can assure you it can be done, it is a matter of priorities.

It might not be 10 days of spa in a resort, but it could be small things every day. It could be 10 minutes of meditation a day or 5 minutes longer in the shower.
It could be simple things, and still taking care of you.

How are you taking care of you?

How are you making sure that you are the best you so you can help others?

Do you need a quick fix?

Do you need a quick fix?

Many people I meet want to know how they can find inner peace and balance. I often tell them, that it comes with a lot of work.

Some think that they can just meditate their way forward, so they don’t have to think about all the trauma and heartbreak they have had in the past.

Nothing could be farther from the truth. No matter how much you meditate or seek out spiritual roads, you will always have to work with your past. It is a part of you and it will always be a part of who you are.

It can be in control and manifest itself as anxiety, depression or similar things. It can do great damage, even if you hide it away. Your body and soul will know that you have just hidden it like old laundry you do not want to wash.

Your past can be a part of you, so that you know it is there, but it is kept in control. It puts forward its face now and then, but all in all, you live with it.

Then there is the last part; you working on it “being a part of you”-past, but not your future. It has to do with forgiveness, not of other but of yourself. Forgiving that you did what you could, when you could. It is hard work, with tears and realizations, but such a relief and great feeling of weights lifting from your shoulders.

You cannot meditate your way through your past, but you can work your way forward.

Find someone to guide you, read a lot of books, and listen to others.

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5 things I learned in December

5 things I learned in December

#1 – I learned that if I don’t take of myself, spirit will make sure I will. I learned it the hard way. I had a hard time remembering myself, but spirit always has my back. Read about it here: https://soulguide.com/clairvoyance/listen-spirit-language/

#2 – I learned that my business coach, Andi, in every way makes me act and work. She is absolutely fantastic, and an extraordinaire soul. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/workingwithwickman/

#3 – I learned that my Danish members club is fantastic, and slowly and surely moving forward. It is a great place of development, caring, and spirituality. It is a place where members can evolve.

#4 – I learned that the healing I see in regressions is amazing. It gives a very raw healing that goes so deep into every cell and fiber.  The healing from past lives gives access to so much more happiness.

#5 – I learned that not everyone understands what thoughtfulness and caring is. You have to start with yourself and through action, show others what it is to care. Everything starts with yourself.

What kind of conversation do you choose?

What kind of conversation do you choose?

I went to a Christmas market a few weeks ago. I had a place there, where I had put my posters and postcards on display. On top I had a deck of angel cards so visitors could draw one and we could talk about it. I love talking to people, they always have so many lovely stories to tell.

One of the things I see a lot of the time, is that men tend to say “I don’t believe in that stuff” and more often than not, they refuse to participate. A few even said “that is my wife’s craziness.”

I often let go and say nothing when men have negative comments like that. They are going to talk to me when they are ready, and a lot of men are never ready.

One man did talk to me, and when I told him what I was getting, he looked at me in a way that only someone who understood could. I loved that he listened.

One man was so much fun to talk to because he was spending a lot of time trying to tell me how my line of work really is, and how none of the things I said was true. I find those people almost hilarious because they do not listen to what I say but try to come up with all kinds of “evidence” why what I say is wrong. He came up with one reason after another, and even called me a fraud.

On the other hand, he kept on saying that he believed there is more to life than what we see.

I am firm believer in the fact that I am not the one to convince people. I don’t need people to believe me. What I do need is for people to respect me, and listen to me. I am not asking for anyone to be converted, but to show basic respect the same way they want me to believe them.

Do you remember the last time someone did not respect you in a conversation? What did you do?

Raise you human game

Raise you human game


Has anyone ever told you that you were not good enough? Have you ever told anyone they were not good enough?

I try so hard not to focus on what people are not able to do, but raise my thoughts and see what people are capable of. I want to lift people and I want everyone to know that they have great value to the universe. No one is here by accident.

If someone tells you that you are not good enough, that you are no use, or anything like that, raise your game. Don’t give back the same way. Be the opposite, tell them how they are great, how it is so great for them to give you great critique, just let them know that you are not like them.

“if they go low, you go high”

Michelle Obama said it not too long ago “if they go low, you go high”. It is such brilliant words. The world has so many people going low, and talking in horrid ways. Even being very rude to other people. If no one stops it and say I am not like them, it is just going to go on.

Growing up I was always told to ignore and turn the other cheek. While I was told to do that, it seemed like a hopeless road with the horrid bullying coming my way. I don’t think it is the solution. You need to act, otherwise you will feel helpless. That does not mean being like them.

Your ego want to fight back, and wants you to defend yourself. Defense is more than “giving back”. If you are kind, loving and come with words from a place of love, you will be successful.

Of course, there some people who are not responding well to that ether, and that is when you need to make your stand VERY clear. Remove yourself after making it clear that it is not acceptable. Protecting yourself, does not mean fighting, it can also just mean to be kind and removing yourself.

I hope that you will live from your heart and in love, not in your ego, and fighting.


Saras pasport – it got lost and found

Saras pasport – it got lost and found

Today I must tell you about a conversation I had the other night. I was working on my new project for Soulguide, when I got a text message. Sara is a great soul that I have known for some time now.

The conversation:

Sara: Hey Alicia, can I just trouble you – can you please help me find my passport? It is in none of the places I thought it would be. – Sara
Alicia: hmm by cookbooks. I am shown a blue book or a darker color book.
Sara: Thank you, I will have a look.
Alicia: Do you have a bookcase where there are other kinds of books too, but it is a cookbook.
Sara: picture of bookcase and a dark blue cookbook No, I thought it would be this blue book that I often use… these are my cookbooks. Is this the ones you mean?
Alicia: hmm That basic cookbook in the right down corner… have you looked behind it?
Sara: hmm It is not there, I have to walk the dog and I will look afterwards in my own office, there might be a cookbook there. THANK you! I will be back.
Sara: picture of passport You are absolutely amazing!!! It was in the bookcase upstairs where I had put it in a pile – the top book was a cookbook!! THANK YOU!!
Alicia: Oh how amazing. I am so glad.
Sara: picture of pile with passport on top
I absolutely love my job, when I get to help people like that. The pictures I get are so clear, and I get to be the messenger.
Every day I am filled with gratitude and humbled by being the one who gets to help others.

Saras pasport - it got lost and found

How to cure certain headaches

How to cure certain headaches


Often when out with friends, I end up channeling what I get from the other world. Some of the issues I am asked a lot about are headaches and migraines.

A lot of people, too many people, have headaches and in some cases, very severe headaches. They  can be sick for several days during a month, often with migraines, and in some cases are even not able to work.

One time I was talking to some friends, one of whom told me she was very sick with migraines and had as much as four to five days a month where she was unable to get out of bed. I told her that I didn’t actually think she was sick.
I know she thought I must be crazy, but I asked her to bear with me.

Sometimes headaches are a visit, from the other world which has come to close to your private sphere. Everyone has one, and if a person is too close you either increase the distance, or you accept they are within your sphere.
But what do you do if it’s a visit, and you don’t know how handle them getting too close, because you can’t see them?

The difference

I told her that she had to try to communicate when she felt a headache or migraine build up. Ask it to move away from her. Even just 3 steps, or enough for her to get back her own space, her private sphere. If a physical being gets too close, you would also feel uncomfortable and probably ask them to move. Here it is exactly same. No doubt, she thought I was crazy but since nothing else had worked she was willing to give it a try.

The next time I saw her she was a changed woman; She had done what I suggested to her, and she hadn’t had a headache in two months. She was so happy, but also a bit scared because she didn’t understand what had made her headaches go away.
She wanted to know what spirits were there and why they wanted to hurt her. I told her they did not want to hurt her but when she had headaches she was asking the universe for help and that made it worse. They are trying to help, to heal, and that’s why they get in close, and the it amplifies everything.

How to: 
If you have headaches try to:

Breathe and say, either inside your head or out loud, “please take 3 steps back because I get uncomfortable when you are this close”.
It usually works the first time, but try it and let me know what you think.

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My soul is bleeding

My soul is bleeding

I love my friends, and I am very close to some of them. I feel them. When I thought about a friend today, this is what came to me. I absolutely love my friend, and would love to save her from her tears, but I can’t.

There are these days where my soul is bleeding. It is telling me that life is just the hardest because I must learn and grow. Somehow I did not know how bad my soul was bleeding until a friend told me. The moment she said the word the tears came running. They will not stop, but they are the voice of my soul.

My soul is speaking and I need to listen. It is telling me I am on the right path, and not far from my dream, but somehow it seems like I cannot reach it without my soul bleeding. I need to learn, to stop and be grateful. Why is gratefulness so hard and why can’t I just be satisfied and happy.

It seems like learning comes with tears. Every tear is a sentence from my soul, telling me to remember myself and be brave. Somehow I am brave and encouraging to? everyone but me. I know my work is about others but I seem to be lost in the process. Am I just put on earth to serve and not to be alive and happy? How can I be me and not die a little every day?

Tomorrow will be better; we promise, they keep telling me. And still my soul is bleeding. Where is the light and how can I get into it?
My fight is personal, where no one can come along, and nobody wants to.

This is words with power and I know she is better now.

My soul is bleeding

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How do you listen?

How do you listen?

So many people are alone with their feelings, and many choose not to share them because they have previously been burned by others.

Not long ago, I was talking to a woman who keeps her feelings to herself. She was explaining how, one day, one of her friends had pushed her to tell how she felt. Her friend had said that “sharing is good” and so she ended up telling her how she was. But this friend never replied to what she told her, just something irrelevant about kids.
Obviously, she was hurt by her friend’s behavior. She had told this friend about her feelings, which was extraordinary. And all she got out of it was, that maybe keeping her feelings to herself was the right thing to do.

We talked about how sharing with others can be difficult, because our expectations of others are so different. They might not be in the same place as you, so you cannot expect them to act as you do.

I don’t think that this friend should have pushed her so hard if she anyway didn’t have time to listen to her, that just makes the effort seem pointless. If you want others to feel important, like they matter, you must listen to them. Who knows, they might even say something interesting.

Have you thought about how you listen, and what you expect from other people when you share your thoughts and feelings?

I often say that we should listen to the older generation of our society, mostly because they have seen things we wouldn’t even dream of. I have spent a lot of time listening to my grandparents and their friends, asking about the “old times” and that has taught me so much about where the world comes from, and where it is going.

Sometimes, all you need is to breathe and listen.

How do you listen?

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Do we need to do more than cure cancer?

Do we need to do more than cure cancer?

We have an annual event in Denmark ”break Cancer.” It is a week of fundraising for the cause of curing cancer.

All from radio and TV-shows to social medias has competitions, there are loads of private events where you can give money for cancer research or a company will donate “for every like” they get on Facebook.
It all leads up to one big show being broadcast on TV, where celebrities are on the phone to receive donations, and you can even win a car.

I think it is great that they want to do something about cancer, however my thoughts on this annual event might be unpopular; I am actually saddened by the huge amount of cancer awareness.

It’s not that we shouldn’t support cancer research, of course we should. It’s just that my thoughts wander off to those who are not fighting cancer, to those who fight other things like sclerosis, Alzheimer disease, lupus, arthritis and a lot of other illnesses that are as horrible to get.

For some reason, in Denmark we think that cancer is the worst disease, but if you break it down there are so many kinds of cancer. Not just breast cancer, cervical cancer or leukemia, but more unknown kinds of cancer that are not researched because there is not enough focus on them. People die from other kinds of cancer because no one know they have it, because they are not the “popular” cancer types.

I am not saying we should not research. I am not saying it is not horrible to get any kind of cancer. But I am on the other hand saying, that we have more than cancer to cure.

Some family of mine have an autoimmune disease which only around 1.000 people in the world has, and she is dying from it. Slowly, painfully and surely. Almost no one knows of this disease, and even if they do the answer is often that no research is done because there are no funds.

So, my question is this; do we want more than just to “break cancer?”

Regardless, I hope that one day we will find a cure for both cancer and other diseases.

Do we need to do more than cure cancer?


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