Do you fight for your friendships?

Do you fight for your friendships?

 

Do you know that feeling when you are really changing as a human, and as a spirit?  I have been changing for years now. It feels like I am expanding all the time.
I am in constant evolution. I am still the same in my core, my spirit. Even though I am changing, I still have the same core values. They are very important to stay true to. This is who you are deep inside your soul and spirit.

I have friends where I see their potential and cores when they don’t. I love helping people to see their core, the love and potential they have inside. It is close to magic. During my life, I have had people I was close to and have had to let go. They changed in another direction and I could not follow. I could not walk the same path and they could not come along mine. It has been some of the hardest things in my life. To let go of people that I really cared for. Some have just faded away, and slowly just lost touch. Others have gone with a huge commotion. It has been hard times, but mostly it has been hard putting myself first.
Some friends have not had any understanding for my path and others have been along for the ride. I have loved seeing some of the paths my friends have taken, and others not so much.
I have asked myself, “when you should you leave other people, and when to fight for a friendship? “.

It is one of the hardest lessons I have had to learn.
The answer I have found to work for me, is listen to your intuition. Really listen, and ask yourself if the energy you use on the friendship is more negative than positive. Do you go to bed feeling angry or sad more often than not, then is it time to let go?
One of the things I have used is a simple but great thing. I flip a coin, and that sounds absurd, but it is not the outcome. It is because in that very moment it falls, you know what is right, what you hope for and what you have to do.
It is truly irrelevant what the outcome of the coinflip is. It is what is in your heart that is important.

Chose yourself – every day!

Dear friend listen to me

Dear friend listen to me

I have this great friend. I have more than one, but this one is special.
Like so many others she is in a relationship that are not good. She is trying to make it work, and she keep on telling herself that it must be her. She must be the one who are in the wrong. She must have misunderstood, or be confused, her word echoes in my soul.
From the outside I can see it all and I want to shout out very loud that he has to go, and that it has to be fast. I see him not listening. I see him in a pattern he cannot change, and he sees himself as a victim.
I see him suffocate her independence slowly but surely. When I talk to her she is different because he might listen in, or read her texts.
Her soul is slowly being put away for her to serve him. As a psychic I am told when things are not good for people, and how they can move in the right direction. She is not moving in the right direction.
The only thing I can do is to say what I already are saying, and be there for her. I cannot tell her that the whole universe is screaming for her to be herself, and feel her soul dance again. I cannot tell her that he is just bad news for her, and he must go. Only she can make that decision.
Last time I wrote her, an older man was standing behind me. He told me to tell her to be careful. That there are not far from victim to crazy, for some people. Being unable to handle emotions are strong in both.
I often say to people if it feels wrong it is wrong. This is wrong.
My dear friend listen to me, and make a hard decision.

“How do you spell ‘love’?” – Piglet
“You don’t spell it…you feel it.” – Pooh”

5 things I learned in December

5 things I learned in December

#1 – I learned that if I don’t take of myself, spirit will make sure I will. I learned it the hard way. I had a hard time remembering myself, but spirit always has my back. Read about it here: https://soulguide.com/clairvoyance/listen-spirit-language/

#2 – I learned that my business coach, Andi, in every way makes me act and work. She is absolutely fantastic, and an extraordinaire soul. You can find her here: https://www.facebook.com/workingwithwickman/

#3 – I learned that my Danish members club is fantastic, and slowly and surely moving forward. It is a great place of development, caring, and spirituality. It is a place where members can evolve.

#4 – I learned that the healing I see in regressions is amazing. It gives a very raw healing that goes so deep into every cell and fiber.  The healing from past lives gives access to so much more happiness.

#5 – I learned that not everyone understands what thoughtfulness and caring is. You have to start with yourself and through action, show others what it is to care. Everything starts with yourself.

What kind of conversation do you choose?

What kind of conversation do you choose?

I went to a Christmas market a few weeks ago. I had a place there, where I had put my posters and postcards on display. On top I had a deck of angel cards so visitors could draw one and we could talk about it. I love talking to people, they always have so many lovely stories to tell.

One of the things I see a lot of the time, is that men tend to say “I don’t believe in that stuff” and more often than not, they refuse to participate. A few even said “that is my wife’s craziness.”

I often let go and say nothing when men have negative comments like that. They are going to talk to me when they are ready, and a lot of men are never ready.

One man did talk to me, and when I told him what I was getting, he looked at me in a way that only someone who understood could. I loved that he listened.

One man was so much fun to talk to because he was spending a lot of time trying to tell me how my line of work really is, and how none of the things I said was true. I find those people almost hilarious because they do not listen to what I say but try to come up with all kinds of “evidence” why what I say is wrong. He came up with one reason after another, and even called me a fraud.

On the other hand, he kept on saying that he believed there is more to life than what we see.

I am firm believer in the fact that I am not the one to convince people. I don’t need people to believe me. What I do need is for people to respect me, and listen to me. I am not asking for anyone to be converted, but to show basic respect the same way they want me to believe them.

Do you remember the last time someone did not respect you in a conversation? What did you do?

I had to listen – Spirit Language

I had to listen – Spirit Language

 

I must tell you about my last two weeks. The last month has been hard, and with a load of things to do. I have not had time to stop and think or feel. I have helped a lot of others but felt almost powerless when it came to relaxing.

So, my phone decided to lose power fast, and the screen cracked. This was last week. I had to call the insurance company to have it replaced.

One morning I woke up with a finger that hurt and was turning blue. I was surprised because I had done nothing to injure it. Turns out I had blown some blood vessels in my finger. It hurt like crazy and I had to go to the doctor’s to figure it out.

The very same day, my computer died. Not just died, but totally died. Nothing happened when I pushed the button. I had to call the service center to have it replaced.

Our clock on the wall stopped all of the sudden. Just stopped. It is almost brand new, but t just stopped.

My car got a new problem, and I needed to take it to the mechanic to be fixed.

So, within two day I was down one hand, one phone, one computer, one car, and a clock. I was beginning to see a pattern.

I had spoken to 3 different service centers, a doctor and a mechanic. I decided to ask a friend. She is very intuitive and great at tuning in to me.

She told me it was time to remember my healing, meditation and peace. It had to do with remembering myself.

I know she was right and I have taken time every day to be me, and not just helping others.

The lesson, not just for me, is to remember yourself every day, spend time on you, even if you can only get 10 minutes a day.

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Raise you human game

Raise you human game

 

Has anyone ever told you that you were not good enough? Have you ever told anyone they were not good enough?

I try so hard not to focus on what people are not able to do, but raise my thoughts and see what people are capable of. I want to lift people and I want everyone to know that they have great value to the universe. No one is here by accident.

If someone tells you that you are not good enough, that you are no use, or anything like that, raise your game. Don’t give back the same way. Be the opposite, tell them how they are great, how it is so great for them to give you great critique, just let them know that you are not like them.

“if they go low, you go high”

Michelle Obama said it not too long ago “if they go low, you go high”. It is such brilliant words. The world has so many people going low, and talking in horrid ways. Even being very rude to other people. If no one stops it and say I am not like them, it is just going to go on.

Growing up I was always told to ignore and turn the other cheek. While I was told to do that, it seemed like a hopeless road with the horrid bullying coming my way. I don’t think it is the solution. You need to act, otherwise you will feel helpless. That does not mean being like them.

Your ego want to fight back, and wants you to defend yourself. Defense is more than “giving back”. If you are kind, loving and come with words from a place of love, you will be successful.

Of course, there some people who are not responding well to that ether, and that is when you need to make your stand VERY clear. Remove yourself after making it clear that it is not acceptable. Protecting yourself, does not mean fighting, it can also just mean to be kind and removing yourself.

I hope that you will live from your heart and in love, not in your ego, and fighting.

 

Saras pasport – it got lost and found

Saras pasport – it got lost and found

Today I must tell you about a conversation I had the other night. I was working on my new project for Soulguide, when I got a text message. Sara is a great soul that I have known for some time now.

The conversation:

Sara: Hey Alicia, can I just trouble you – can you please help me find my passport? It is in none of the places I thought it would be. – Sara
Alicia: hmm by cookbooks. I am shown a blue book or a darker color book.
Sara: Thank you, I will have a look.
Alicia: Do you have a bookcase where there are other kinds of books too, but it is a cookbook.
Sara: picture of bookcase and a dark blue cookbook No, I thought it would be this blue book that I often use… these are my cookbooks. Is this the ones you mean?
Alicia: hmm That basic cookbook in the right down corner… have you looked behind it?
Sara: hmm It is not there, I have to walk the dog and I will look afterwards in my own office, there might be a cookbook there. THANK you! I will be back.
Sara: picture of passport You are absolutely amazing!!! It was in the bookcase upstairs where I had put it in a pile – the top book was a cookbook!! THANK YOU!!
Alicia: Oh how amazing. I am so glad.
Sara: picture of pile with passport on top
I absolutely love my job, when I get to help people like that. The pictures I get are so clear, and I get to be the messenger.
Every day I am filled with gratitude and humbled by being the one who gets to help others.

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SoulChat yesterday – I am so sorry

Yesterday should have been my SoulChat night, English edition.  BUT I had worked all day and then my daughter got sick – so I absolutely forgot all about it. I am so very Sorry that I let you down.

I will in instead do an English SoulChat on Tuesday November 22nd at 3 p.m EST, 21.00 CET.

I have never forgotten about a SoulChat before. Being a mom is so important to me that a sick daughter made me forget everything around me.

Please forgive me I hope you will join me on Tuesday.

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How to cure certain headaches

How to cure certain headaches

 

Often when out with friends, I end up channeling what I get from the other world. Some of the issues I am asked a lot about are headaches and migraines.

A lot of people, too many people, have headaches and in some cases, very severe headaches. They  can be sick for several days during a month, often with migraines, and in some cases are even not able to work.

One time I was talking to some friends, one of whom told me she was very sick with migraines and had as much as four to five days a month where she was unable to get out of bed. I told her that I didn’t actually think she was sick.
I know she thought I must be crazy, but I asked her to bear with me.

Sometimes headaches are a visit, from the other world which has come to close to your private sphere. Everyone has one, and if a person is too close you either increase the distance, or you accept they are within your sphere.
But what do you do if it’s a visit, and you don’t know how handle them getting too close, because you can’t see them?

The difference

I told her that she had to try to communicate when she felt a headache or migraine build up. Ask it to move away from her. Even just 3 steps, or enough for her to get back her own space, her private sphere. If a physical being gets too close, you would also feel uncomfortable and probably ask them to move. Here it is exactly same. No doubt, she thought I was crazy but since nothing else had worked she was willing to give it a try.

The next time I saw her she was a changed woman; She had done what I suggested to her, and she hadn’t had a headache in two months. She was so happy, but also a bit scared because she didn’t understand what had made her headaches go away.
She wanted to know what spirits were there and why they wanted to hurt her. I told her they did not want to hurt her but when she had headaches she was asking the universe for help and that made it worse. They are trying to help, to heal, and that’s why they get in close, and the it amplifies everything.

How to: 
If you have headaches try to:

Breathe and say, either inside your head or out loud, “please take 3 steps back because I get uncomfortable when you are this close”.
It usually works the first time, but try it and let me know what you think.

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My soul is bleeding

My soul is bleeding

I love my friends, and I am very close to some of them. I feel them. When I thought about a friend today, this is what came to me. I absolutely love my friend, and would love to save her from her tears, but I can’t.

There are these days where my soul is bleeding. It is telling me that life is just the hardest because I must learn and grow. Somehow I did not know how bad my soul was bleeding until a friend told me. The moment she said the word the tears came running. They will not stop, but they are the voice of my soul.

My soul is speaking and I need to listen. It is telling me I am on the right path, and not far from my dream, but somehow it seems like I cannot reach it without my soul bleeding. I need to learn, to stop and be grateful. Why is gratefulness so hard and why can’t I just be satisfied and happy.

It seems like learning comes with tears. Every tear is a sentence from my soul, telling me to remember myself and be brave. Somehow I am brave and encouraging to? everyone but me. I know my work is about others but I seem to be lost in the process. Am I just put on earth to serve and not to be alive and happy? How can I be me and not die a little every day?

Tomorrow will be better; we promise, they keep telling me. And still my soul is bleeding. Where is the light and how can I get into it?
My fight is personal, where no one can come along, and nobody wants to.

This is words with power and I know she is better now.

My soul is bleeding

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